The first case study I read was about a young boy called 'JB'. He had the best childhood with his mum, they had loads of memories together, but Dad created bad memories for him. Dad constantly used to punch holes in walls, kick doors down. JB never told anybody, he kept his thoughts in but school didn't help, they thought he had behaviour problems, they took him to speak to somebody but nobody understood.
His worst memory was when he was 9 year old. His dad was shouting at mum, calling her horrible names. Dad went to hit Mum, but JB got between it and protected his mum by pushing his dad away. JB and his Mum moved out that day and went to stay at Nan's house. JB used to pretended to be ill so he didn't have to go to school. He wanted to stay at home with Mum and keep her safe in case Dad came. A school nurse got somebody from NSPCC to come and see him, they spoke about Domestic Abuse Recovering Together program that was going to help JB. The person from NSPCC Lynsey was the first person that spoke to JB like an adult instead of a child, this made JB feel better. He got to meet other people who have been through the same as him and realised he wasn't alone.
The second Case Study was about a little girl (Sophie) that had been neglected. Her experience stay with her forever because of it. Nobody was ever at home with her and even when they were, they were too out of it to even notice she was around. She put it down as 'It was just hell'
Both her parents did drugs and whilst she was growing up none of them did basis things a child needs, like cooking meals and bathing. Her mum wouldn't of noticed if she had gone to school or not gone at all, as she was always upstairs drunk, Sophie wanted to go to school so she didn't live the same life as her parents, she could pretend everything was fine at home when at school as no-one knew what was happening at home until the house was once raided.
When Sophie was little, she used to always have to answer the door to strangers and let them in and out of the house, she was really scared of the people who came. Sophie never knew what was happening with all them people. For a few months Sophie doesn't remember seeing her apart from when she was telling Sophie off or told she wasn't letting enough people in the house.
Sophie was often left by herself and felt really lonely, but she also felt lonely when her parents were in as they were mentally completely out of it. Sophie says her worst experience was when her mum got arrested so when Sophie turned up home the windows were boarded up so she couldn't get into her own house, she had no idea what had happened because nobody had contact the school. Sophie cried her eyes out. Her dad turned up, but he was drunk, she was with her dad conked out and had no idea what to do. Sophie tried speaking to her mum and dad about their problems with drugs but they kept yelling and yelling so Sophie left. Sophie thought everybody hated her and that she was lying. She felt completely alone. Sophie took an overdose, she didn't think there was any other way out of it, she wanted her parents to listen to her.
Sophie was referred to the NSPCC by 'Women's Aid'. Sophie didn't tell anybody about her parents substance misuse before NSPCC got involded. Sophie tired speaking to her school but because I was a good kid, they thought there wasn't much going on. NSPCC made me realise that it wasn't Sophies fault and that she wasn't the one to blame. They made her realise that they were her mum's choices and she couldn't change that. Sophie was worried she would follow her mum's route and take drugs, but with NSPCC that didn't happen. The NSPCC took their time to get to know Sophie as they knew everything that had happened, therefore Sophie never had to re-tell her story every time she saw them, she just picked up where they left off.
NSPCC is a place that helps loads of different type of children going through rough patches.
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/







